I've been using a dildo for a long time. Also I am not a virgin. Lately when I use my dildo it hurts, not like its scraping or anything but like an internal pain, almost like its bruised, I don't recall anything drastic happening down there and I am not sure what this could be.
Anonymous. +1 y. Actually, I have never had vaginal sex but I did th same thing and bought a bunch of toys. I found hat working your way up over time from say a bullet, to a larger bullet, to a small dildo, to a biger one is the perfect transition. Just make sure the dildos are made of soft material so its comfortable.
Also since dildos are pretty much huge Maybe your vagina wasn’t used to stretching that much. Maybe you didn’t use enough lube too so it may have scratched your vagina My best advice would be ask somebody older about it.
The dildo will be harder and more rigid, even when made from a flesh-like material such as silicone. First-time dildo users might find this unaccustomed hardness to be a little painful. It is for this reason that we recommend always using lots of lube when penetrating yourself with a dildo. You will have to control the dildo.
If it does hurt her too much then tell her to stop and go back to you/the real thing. But you have no need to feel insecure, regardless of size a dildo (or vibrator) isn't anything close to a good substitute for the real thing. Have fun, add that spice, shake it up. enjoy. #11 D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah, Sep 19, 2007.
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Shakespeare once wrote, "A dildo, a dildo, my kingdom for a dildo!". But don't, like, quote me on that. I spent most of academic life journaling about boys' butts and thus am not to be trusted.
Don't do a pumping action like you normally can with a penis sized dildo, the friction around the curve could cause a hemorrhage (tear). This is a dangerous form of masturbation, and I'm not a doctor, but I don't think you could get one to recommend it.